Young man gesturing for silence, creating a calm and focused ambiance. The art of self-respect: 8 details about yourself you should always keep private 1. Your long-term plans (until they’re real) People love to comment, criticize, or confuse you with their doubts. And sometimes, sharing your goals too early exposes them to unnecessary noise. Self-respect means allowing your plans to grow quietly, without the pressure of other people’s opinions. Move in silence, build in priv